My teacher, Richard Miller, often speaks of inviting our troublesome thoughts in for "tea and conversation in our guest house of awareness." Rumi's poetry eloquently expresses this.
The
Guest House
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning
a new
arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary
awareness
comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them
all!
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your
house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He
may be
clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the
shame,
the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as
a
guide from beyond.
~ Rumi
~
(The
Essential
Rumi, versions by Coleman Barks)